Born to Be Wild Lifestyle: Somatic Therapy & Sex Coaching For Women in Castle Rock and Denver

Unlock the divine feminine within you through empowering somatic therapy & relationship coaching services with Dovie Gena

You’ve done the work. Talked it out with a therapist. Read all the books. Practiced mindfulness or yoga. And yet, something still feels stuck or all wrong. Stuck in your relationships, stuck in your understanding who you are meant to be as a women, and frustrated with or completely disconnected from your body. The tension in your chest, that “fight-or-flight” feeling lingering, the numbness that just won’t go away… Your body holds memories that become your daily reality. Habits that you cant seem break or cycles of love and pain that seem like they are never truly resolved.

If this sounds like you, then know that you’re responding to pain, discomfort or experiences in your body that never really had the chance to be fully processed.

That’s where somatic therapy and sex coaching fits into the picture. Through grounded, experiential body-based work, you’ll learn to listen to your body’s wisdom, release what’s no longer needed, and feel whole again. You will feel sexy again!

If you’re ready to reconnect with yourself and move forward in a way that finally feels safe and non-judgmental, this is where it begins.

Meet Your Mind-Body and Relationship Expert, Dovie Gena

Hi! I’m Dovie Gena, a Board Certified Sexologist and trauma-informed Sex & Relationship Somatica® coach. I am a MS graduate candidate in Clinical Mental Health Counseling prioritizing Marriage & Family Therapy as a key component to my work. I am also a talented Somatic EMDR Integrative Guide helping my clients achieve shorter treatment times and better results with everything they desire!

My work blends hands-on body-based practices (called somatics) with a compassionate, relational approach to help you heal, reconnect, and deepen intimacy with yourself and with your partner(s). No more obligation sex. No more not knowing what you really want in bed or in life.

This isn’t about fixing you because you’re not broken. Together, we create a space where your body’s needs & desires can be heard, your boundaries created & respected, and your pleasure reclaimed and elevated.

In our sessions, we move gently and intentionally. You’ll learn to recognize and interpret your body’s unique signals & sensations, feel what it’s like when your needs are honored, and explore how intimacy can become a source of safety and joy.

When you can finally feel what it’s like to be connected to yourself, it becomes possible to share that connection with your partner(s) in deeper, more authentic ways. It can also help attract the right new partners into your life!

Are You Ready for Radical Personal Growth Beyond Traditional Talk Therapy?

I work with women to help them heal from overwhelm, anxiety, stressful lives and past traumas to feel confident in their bodies, to trust their decisions & ignite their divine feminine energy. I help you become the most beautiful and authentic version of “YOU”!

You’re in the right place if you’re asking yourself these questions:

• How do I build a safe, accepting, and fulfilling emotional connection while also experiencing mind-blowing sex?

• How do I feel more confident in and out of the bedroom?

• What does healthy, empowered dating look like in today’s world?

• How do I move forward after divorce?

• How can I reconnect with my partner when raising young children has dimmed our spark?

• How do I heal from the past or a recent traumatic experience, quiet self-judgment, and finally feel worthy of love?

If you have ever asked these questions, then I invite you to apply for a FREE consultation. Click the link below to get started:

Other Services Offered at Born to Be Wild Lifestyle

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Root Causes: The Nervous System and Modern Life

Our nervous system is like the body’s command center. It’s always scanning for threats, connection, and belonging. It is part of the human experience. But when modern life happens, it brings inevitable stress, corporate burnout, traumatic experiences can happen like the death of a loved one, or a car accident and overwhelming emotions follow. It can get stuck on repeat in survival mode and literally become addicted to the brain chemicals produced by all that “drama”.

One way healing happens is when your nervous system feels safe again. Safety softens the body, quiets the mind, and steadies your emotions. Over time, you can begin to trust your instincts, rather than seeing them as the source of stress. No more dating the wrong guys. No more dealing with that horrible relative or staying trapped in that exhausting job.

As an expert with enhanced training in Somatic EMDR, I give you tools to regulate and re-balance your nervous system while helping you desensitize your memories. I don’t re-traumatize you to heal. Many women notice they recover more quickly after stress, feel more connected to themselves, and approach relationships with greater clarity, stronger boundaries and a sense of calm.

This is where a resilient and renewed life begins, not by erasing your past, but by creating space to live with more presence, ease, and pleasure in your body.

Somatic Therapy for Women: Live Your Life to Its Fullest Potential

Most somatic therapy clinics stop at body awareness and basic techniques. They don’t touch you in sessions. At Born to Be Wild Lifestyle, I work with you on a deeply personal level through somatic therapy techniques and relationship coaching. This requires us to touch and hug or embrace for example and experience heart coherence as a co-regulation technique.

Every session is a shared experience, where your voice, your body, and your boundaries lead the way. Together, we create space for you to discover what intimacy, pleasure, and authentic connection truly looks like and feel like in your body. You go back out into the world with new body language like effortlessly taller posture and empowered control over your own reactions to everyday situations.

I help you reclaim the parts of yourself that long for love, confidence, and passion in all aspects of your life, including dating and mating. With me, you get to feel what it’s like to be seen, validated, and celebrated for who you truly are!

Rather than focusing on symptoms, I help women feel alive and wildly free again. We work together to help you date with confidence, or to stop carrying the weight of past grief or guilt. Some are navigating divorce, trying to avoid it, raising young kids or working through career stress. Many are managing all of this and more. Others are healing from deep childhood trauma and are ready to feel safe in their own bodies again.

Here’s How Somatic Therapy Fits in the Picture:

• Slow down enough to notice sensations.
• Track physical responses and learn what they mean.
• Practice grounding, orienting, and resourcing skills.
• Gently revisit stuck places, with support and regulation.
• Reconnect with movement, breath, or voice & sound.
• Build trust with your own body again.

Here’s How Sex Coaching Fits in the Picture:

• Explore your erotic identity and discover what truly turns you on
• Reignite intimacy and pleasure with your partner(s)
• Overcome shame, low libido, or fear around sexuality
• Understand your worthiness wounds and how to resolve them & own them with confidence
• Learn to communicate desires and boundaries with clarity and confidence
• Heal from past sexual abuse, religious/cultural indoctrination and/or release shame
• Step into a more empowered, unapologetic relationship with your pleasure

In-Home Sessions Across Denver and Castle Rock

Instead of driving across town to a stale public clinic, you come to me and/or I come to you. Together, we create a safe, private, and grounded environment where you want. Many women find that being at home allows them to relax more deeply, open up faster, and integrate the work into daily life more naturally. Likewise, others find it beneficial to be outside of their usual environment and I offer a warm and inviting hospitable home office space free from distractions.

During an in-home session, we’ll move at your own pace. This may include guided somatic practices, grounding techniques, breathwork, or body awareness exercises.

If sex coaching is part of your journey, we’ll also work with body based tools to explore desire, intimacy, and communication in a way that feels safe and supportive for you.

Every in-home session is designed around your unique needs, whether you’re processing trauma, rebuilding intimacy with a partner, or reconnecting with your own body and pleasure.

For many, this approach brings an added layer of comfort, ease, and embodiment because the healing begins right where you are and where you want to be.

Results Clients Often Experience

Every woman’s path is unique. Healing doesn’t follow a straight line. But many who commit to somatic sex & relationship work begin to notice powerful shifts, both subtle and life-changing:

• Greater emotional steadiness and resilience
• A body that feels calm yet alive, and responsive
• Better sleep quality
• Release from long-held tension or pain in areas of the body
• Disappearing chronic symptoms such as: IBS, skin rashes and migraines
• Stronger boundaries rooted in self-respect
• Confidence in voicing needs and desires
• Ease in ability to deal with disappointment
• Reconnection with pleasure, sensuality, and joy; looking & feeling sexy again!
• More depth and honesty in relationships
• A return to feeling fully, unapologetically themselves

These aren’t promises. They are possibilities unfolding at your pace, with compassion and care. Over time, the work helps women not only heal but also step boldly into a life of love, passion, and self-trust.

You Can Start from Where You Are

You don’t need to be “ready.” You don’t need to have all the answers. You don’t need to fix yourself first.

If you’re reading this and something in you stirs, even slightly,  that’s enough. That’s a beginning.

Here’s how we can begin:

1. Reach out via the consultation form
2. If approved, we will enjoy a 45+ minute virtual consultation call together
3. If you’re not approved, I will share why & offer additional resources and potentially a referral for your unique circumstances
4. If approved, I will tell you about my custom Annual “Fierce Feminine Awakening” Program
5. Then you can ask me any questions and decide if this work fits for your life
6. If we move forward, we’ll begin at your pace
7. From there, we’ll build trust session by session going deeper each time to awaken the goddess already inside of your heart, mind, body and soul

There’s no pressure. This is about real connection, not a sales pitch. Truthfully, I only work with women who are committed to making real change themselves, but they just don’t know where to start.

That’s why there is an application just to get a consultation. Not every one is approved. If you are not a good fit for my program, I will tell you. I will also provide you with alternative resources to help. I want all women to succeed and feel the same amount of love, passion for life and embodied sexy confidence that I have!

Why I Do This Work

You deserve to feel whole, not just functional, not just “fine,” but truly, wildly alive.

I became a trauma informed Somatic Sex & Relationship expert specializing in EMDR because I saw how much people suffered when they’re stuck in survival mode. And, I personally experienced what happens when the body is included: something powerful blossoms open. If your application is accepted, I will share more about my personal journey in the days leading up to our meeting.

You don’t have to go through this alone. You deserve to be seen, supported, and reminded that healing is not only possible, it’s already within you.

Apply for a FREE Consultation

You don’t have to keep carrying what your body never had space to release. If you’ve been living with tension, disconnection, or emotional overwhelm, it’s not your fault, and it’s not permanent. The body knows how to heal. It just needs a space to feel safe enough to begin and tools to get started today for the rest of your life.

Somatic therapy and sex coaching meets you exactly where you are. Not with judgment. Not with pressure. But with presence, respect, and care.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What somatic approaches do you use?

We’ll use various somatic approaches including embodies empathy, mind-body integration, mindfulness, and somatic awareness among other techniques gained through becoming a Somatica certified coach and certified somatic EMDR guide as well as various other trainings over the past several years.

2. Who is somatic therapy and Sex Coaching best suited for?

Somatic therapy and sex coaching services are best suited for women who live in “fight-or-flight”, battle insecurities with their sexuality, sexual identity, or want to feel more at home in their own bodies. Dovie’s coaching will help awaken your truest desires for pleasure and a purpose driven meaningful life on your own terms.

4. Is Dovie a somatic therapist?

Dovie is Somatica certified coach but not a licensed psychotherapist (LPC). Her training is tightly focused on addressing the mind-body split by helping clients listen to the “wisdom of the body” as a guide. She is currently a graduate candidate working towards a MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling with an emphasis in Marriage & Family Therapy to further guide her clients.

5. What’s the difference between a somatic therapist and a trauma therapist?

A trauma therapist is someone who addresses trauma generally through various means. A somatic therapist is someone who helps bring awareness to the body and heal trauma stored in the body. Dovie is trained as a certified clinical trauma professional as well, an advanced certification typically awarded to those already carrying a license as a traditional therapist.

5. Can somatic therapy help with anxiety and emotional shutdown?

Absolutely. Somatic therapy works directly with the body’s response to anxiety and shutdown by teaching your system how to regulate and feel safe again. It helps restore your ability to connect with emotions, stay grounded, and respond to life with more calm, confidence, and presence. Dovie is trained in a specialty technique called Polyvagal Theory as well to help assist in this process for healing with her clients.

About Somatica Coaches

Somatica® is founded on the belief that our society is very shaming. Most people don’t even have an idea of what is on the pleasure menu in life. It deconstructs social beliefs so client’s can feel permission to learn to embrace their desires. Sexual empowerment is central to confidence and a sense of self.  The (3) key attributes are:

1. Vulnerability
2. Mindfulness
3. Empathy

To read more about the Somatica® Method click HERE

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